It always happens the same way, once she would complete your sentences while you complete her joints while looking into the twilight sky. This truly was love and this is how you guys got together – it was magical. A short time goes by and then one day she says it “don’t you think you smoke too much weed?” BOOOOOM and from there it’ll only get worse I promise you! As more time goes by the situation only gets worse, and you find yourself having to justify why you smoke weed, whether it’s good for you or not etc etc blah blah blah. This is a very common situation however you are not alone to have suffered this peril and many have come out of this situation with good stories to tell. So what to do now?
Pro Cannabis Documentaries
You’ll find loads of them online, YouTube etc so sit your partner down and with the most of tack and subtly get them to watch some of these, hopefully if you’ve chosen the title well it’ll explain things better than you could ever possible do. However that said you should be encouraged promote open conversation towards the topic also as many people see alcohol as a completely social acceptable activity and still frown upon the consumption of cannabis. We naturally discuss this a lot on www.howiquitweed.com, but you should make it your responsibity to show your partner that these “facts” and statistics are mearly government propaganda so that you buy their drugs that make them money. Ultimately remember that winning here will only mean that you’ve proven that alcohol is as much as a drug as weed, except one being related to millions of deaths a year and the other alot of lazy mohfuckas who can’t be fucked to do anything, but smoke weed and jerk off all day.
Introduce them to why you smoke weed.
As gently as possible maybe you should share your experience with them as to why you smoke it and what you get outta it. It may be the case you don’t want to corrupt your other half as purposely trying to get them hooked on a drug isn’t ethically right. That’s probably not the best way to go as you have no way of knowing how getting them on weed is going to effect them. It could be that they aren’t like you and they are unable to control their drug habbit leading to you guys to breaking up and leading to that person being left with a unhealthy drug habbit. That said lightly introducing them to as to why you smoke is a completely different experience altogether, and done responsibly will share your reasonings to what you get out of it. You could also take them to your local legal or tolerated smoking establishment be it in Amsterdam or California, and show them another side.
Listen to them
If they keep on going on about how much you’re smoking, how about this for a brainwave maybe they got a point. It could quite possibly be that you’ve breathing too many trees and you’re turning into a 27/4 stoned ass bitch! If your relationship means anything to you then compromise shouldn’t be a difficult thing to do for ultimately you’re partner is worried about your health. Sometimes it’s all about how you look at things and looking at things differently i.e. consider what you have there is a good thing, a counterbalance making sure you don’t fall of the edge with your drug consumption. Call it and justify it what you want but cannabis is a drug and drugs have a way of taking over your life just when you take your eye of it so appreciate that shit that having somebody there looking out on you is a good thing, and will keep you in check.
NOTE : This is all well and good however partners getting into relationships with full time weed smokers then expecting to get their way once they got their feet under the carpet should listen up. People trying to change other people doesn’t work, if a person wishes to change for themselves that’s one thing, but compromise doesn’t extend to making a person what you want them to be.
Break up
Sometimes opposites attract and sometimes they don’t, sometimes people change but whatever the situation, sometimes if things really aren’t working it’s just easier for both parties to just call it a day. People get together for all sorts of different reasons some during times of duress and difficulty, others while their guards are down i.e say on holiday. If compromise isn’t working out for you, and you’re just find yourself out right lying to your partner i.e smoking blunts when they aren’t there, and turbo brushing and mouth washing your ass eventually isn’t going to work.